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How To Find A Consort Fit For A Queen PDF Print E-mail
Written by Dr. Janice Seto   
Thursday, 12 April 2007


Although Vita was only 20, she was firm on not giving up her social set nor on living abroad as a dutiful diplomat's wife. With her hefty allowance and her self-serving nature, she could do precisely that, setting up home for their two sons in Kent, first at Long Barn, and then the famous Sissinghurst Castle. (They certainly could not live in style a la Bloomsbury Group on his salary.)

Eventually, Harold Nicolson gave up his career for the sake of his marriage, and settled permanently in England, as a writer like his wife, and later served as a British Member of Parliament. Together, they discovered the art of the garden at Sissinghurst, which cemented their unconventional marriage.

For a Successful Run In The West End: The Luckiest Man in the World:


It is not a dismal picture. Switching from a man any of us would date, the princess in all of us know what man we want for a family life. We must share the same goals, same motivation and the same drive, be it as ecologists, city folk, or archeologists.

Now, then, what kind of man would be at ease in your court and in Court? Certainly I cannot picture the Alpha Male, but instead we see the Metrosexual.



This well-travelled bon vivant comes across as amiable (think Mr Bingly from Pride & Prejudice) who counts his blessings, feels grateful for his new station in life and is happy to go along with it, rather than the futile obsession on the shortcomings as consort. He is probably intelligent enough to see how he can make a difference to important causes. And he sees himself as the Luckiest Man in the World.

Sometimes a change in perspective is all that it takes.

The Metrosexual has the unfortunate reputation of being not the sharpest knife in the drawer. As they say in North America, he's "a few fries short of a Happy Meal". This is true of many, but it can be an advantage for the Metrosexual (also known as a Royal Walker, in other words, arm candy) to be a bit of a Himbo like Prince George of Denmark to Queen Anne.

That is strong opinion in the establishment circles in Sweden, that Daniel Wrestling, the steady of Crown Princess Victoria, is in fact a real deal Himbo, not up to snuff as a consort, nor as representative of the country.

These criticisms suggest he is similar to a male version of France's Segolene Royale – not 'presidential' enough to command respect as a possible successor to the outgoing Jacques Chirac.

Currently there are no Metrosexual consorts, although the closest include Archduke Lorenz, now Prince of Belgium as husband to Princess Astrid.

Because of his affability, and the fact they had children, made them a favourite of those who wanted to skip the then-bachelor Prince Philippe and Prince Laurent, as successor to her father Albert II.

The banker responsibly gave up his job in Switzerland and moved his family back to Belgium when his father-in-law, King Albert II, unexpectedly ascended the throne.

What a support Archduke Lorenz has been, and he does quite well in his field in Brussels.

In Spain, there is Jaime de Maricalar (left), the spouse of Infanta Elena. Her fashion sense has surpassed everyone in the royal family since her marriage, thanks in part to her savvy husband.

Ah, the Metrosexual, these modern day creatures: urbane, confident, suave, cultured, and above all, realistic and pragmatic.

At ease on the dance floor (and by that I mean waltzes), witty speeches, opening museums, he admires a well-planned garden, is a soccer dad to the children, nice to the parents, and allows himself to enjoy creature comforts.



The Luckiest Man in the World will have a long run on West End – he is properly appreciative of his good fortune, and very, very good to his woman.

Are you thinking of the Casiraghi boys, too?

Dr Janice Seto has been commenting on royal issues in print since Prince Edward quit the marines (The Edward Dilemma). Since that time, she earned a Bachelor of Science from the University of Toronto's Victoria College, a certificate in French studies from Universite Catholique in Angers, France, teaching qualifications at Bishop's University in Quebec, an MBA from the University of Victoria, and her PsyD from the Sacramento-based Professional School of Psychology in the US.

The daughter of immigrant parents, she has worked at the family restaurant in Bowmanville, proofread romances (and gotten paid for it), and a myriad of other salaried and volunteer work. Currently she teaches Management & Marketing in western Canada after stints teaching EFL and secondary school courses in Bratislava, Tokyo, and Malaysia. Her next article will focus on Royal Younger Men-Older Women relationships.

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Name: Lisa Comment:
Thanks, Janice for this enjoyable article. Although I will say it seems as if it IS possible for the "male ego" type consort to eventually settle down, i.e. Prince Philip. It only took about 50 years though!laughing-smiley Disheartening to read Prince Henrik's comments about wishing to become KING Consort. You know the rules going in and your motivation on marrying SHOULD be love above all. Imagine ending up married to someone who winds up showing his true colors on that subject! Despite hereditary needs within the royal houses, every one of us needs to feel that we are loved.
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Name: M-M Comment:
Henrik of Denmark has a valid point IMO . Perhaps instead of having Kings Consort in the future however as he suggests , there should only be Queens Regnant and no Queens Consort .

IOW all spouses of Monarchs should be called Prince or Princess Consort . As we are assured Camilla will be . As it is speculated Maxima will be . As it is only fair and sensible that they should be blue-smiley
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